Hugs Can Be Happiness Size Men

The happiness of a man to live a relationship can be seen from how often he hugged and kissed by her partner. However, this does not apply to women.

Intimacy in long-term relationship is also more important for middle-aged men than women. That's because the man who has an intimate relationship and commitments tend to be happier than women. As for women, relationship commitment has made him a more satisfying sex life.

That's according to a study conducted on 1,000 couples who have been living together for 25 years. They were asked to answer questions about personal relationships to researchers from the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University. Thousands of couples come from five countries, namely United States, Brazil, Germany, Japan and Spain.

This study was conducted to understand how human sexuality is placed in the couple's relationship that lasted intact. "We already know how the long-term relationships have a positive impact on health. Maybe we can learn what makes a relationship can survive as well as happy," said Julia Heiman, one of the researchers, are like quoted by the Daily Mail.

Participants involved in the study aged between 40 to 70 years, yanng been married or lived with more than one year. From each state, taken 200 pairs.

"Research on heterosexual couples to learn the basics on sex and gender," says Heiman.

Both men and women reveals happier after they lived together for a long time. They are also high in several questionnaires assessing sexual function. Of the five countries, for both men and women, the Japanese are significantly happier with their relationships than Americans. While the relationship of happiness Brazil and Spain, lower than the Americans.

Also note, men and women tend to reach sexual satisfaction, kissing and hugs on a regular basis. Then, for men who have multiple sexual partners during their lives can actually reduce sexual satisfaction.

Known a happier man after undergoing a one-year commitment, whereas for women, their sexual satisfaction increased from time to time. Women who had committed relationship is less than 15 years tended to express a lack of sexual satisfaction, but after 15 years, the percentage of satisfaction increased significantly.

"The possibility of women are more satisfied after a long run because they expect a change in life. In addition, people who are not happy sexually, her marriage tend not to last long," says Heiman.

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Single issue a more extravagant

Financial factors into consideration often someone decides to get married or maintain a single status. The amount of the cost of various bills, housing, children's needs, to insurance education can be a scourge to find a mate.

Do not be mistaken, a study in Britain reveals something quite different. Life as a single spending more money than those who married. On average, a single more extravagant £ 3,500 equivalent to Rp48 million compared to those who have a family.

Research carried out financial firms in the UK Co-operative finding, cost of living per year on average the single just under £ 14,000 or Rp192 million per year. All fees are generally based on the bill is important or not important as eating out and exercise at the gym.

On the other hand, someone who has been married have lower levels of expenditure, around £ 10,500 or Rp144 million per year. This is because the bills, taxes and other expenses are divided between the couple.

If the expenditure incurred is not important, waste the single digit increase, reaching more than £ 5,000 or the equivalent of Rp69 million.

Researchers also found that married couples more often to shop or eat out because they have fewer bills. In fact, single people have to pay extra taxes on foods they buy.

The study conducted on 1,000 adults in various segments of society. Found, single people spend at least 51 percent of their income. Compare with people who have been married, only 30 percent of revenue.

UK Statistics said the number of single people increased by around 145 thousand people per year. And now, the population is growing older.

Ed Mayo, the general secretary of the British Co-operative, said, everyone experiences greater pressure on household budgets. "But, more single people than married people suffer than ever before," he said as quoted by the Daily Mail. (Art)

He mentioned, in order to overcome the additional burden, people who live alone can do simple things like sharing or renting a car on the way home with friends.

The study found single people spend around £ 7,400 or Rp101 million for housing, and those who are married £ 4,000 or Rp54, 8 million. All kinds of single bill reached £ 3,200, or 43.8 million married couples than £ 2,000 or Rp27, 5 million per year.

Single spend Rp27, 5 million per year for food compared to around Rp20, 6 million for couples. Expenditures not essential for single people than married couples Rp16 Rp10 million, 1 million.

The single spent Rp9, 8 million in appearance such as hair, clothes and workout in the gym. But married people spend far more, almost Rp27 million.

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Easy Ways to Reduce Pain

Suffering from pain or physical? Immediately find your true love. A further study found that true love can ease the pain.

As reported by the Daily Mail, the tests performed on 17 women who saw pictures of their spouses. However, in the present study, they are less affected when viewing photos mate. They still feel uncomfortable when seeing pictures of spiders, objects, or even strangers.

Researchers claim that this discovery could help to determine how emotions act at different brain areas. Includes knowing how to handle uncomfortable feelings.

In a previous study found that women's pain will be reduced when they see a photo or her partner's hand. However, a study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Science is the first time that researchers were unable to find the area of ​​the brain responsible for feelings.

To that end, the researchers scan the brain areas of female respondents, while other body parts receive the shock. They were asked to gaze at the picture varies from a partner, a stranger, or a solid object. Respondents were then given a scale to 20 to assess the pain they feel.

Pain scale is significantly lower in women who view pictures of their spouses. The researchers also found activity in prefrontal cortex ceventromedial areas of the brain associated with feeling safe.

The longer women are in a relationship and the more they are supported by their partners, the greater the level of activity in the cortex which is also called the VMPFC it.

VMPFC is able to inhibit other pathways in the brain responsible for fear and anxiety. This area is also able to reduce pain.

The researchers also found that the dorsal anterior cingulate cortex, an area which is responsible for responding to stress, are less active when women look at photographs of their partners.

"We also found that people in long-term relationships showed greater activity in the area," said lead researcher Naomi Eisenberger.

He added, "It shows how strong the effect of love. They can make us feel the pain reduced just by thinking about them or see their pictures."

Meanwhile, pictures of snakes and spiders will produce the opposite effect. That's because in the history of evolution, animals like snakes and spiders are considered to threaten human life.

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8 Things 'Grand' is said in Women

For most men who were undergoing relationship, the better is always saying sweet words in front of a lover. However, never to offend him with words that may not be pleasing to the female partner.

Could be, he's not offended and your relationship will go smoothly for longer. So no one say in front of a lover, should the men also need to know, what is haram statement disclosed in women. Here as quoted by page Times of India:

'You look fat to wear that dress'

Any girl who wants to say to hoard a lot of fat in the body. Statements like these can reduce his confidence and make her feel offended. Be careful talking about weight gain in women, because he may be experiencing frustration.

'Your mother looks younger than you'

Most women would be close to his mother. In fact, because of its proximity often look like brother and sister. But do not ever say that his mother actually looks like a younger sister of your beloved. Do not ever try to compare if you and he's still in the stage of the approach.

'You remind me of ex-girlfriend'

That is the worst statement that did not want to hear a lot of women in the middle of exploring a relationship with a man. Women will always wonder if the guy really likes her partner, or simply because women are a reflection of her former lover.

'My mother is the best chef'

Do not be too proud of your mother's cooking skills in front of the female partner. Because any woman will always be proud of his culinary skills to create delicious. So do not ever claim that your mother is the best cook in the world.

'I do not like your friend'

Most men, still likes to hang out with his friends despite having keasih, as well as women. So do not ever prohibit a woman still hang out with her friends. Do not force a woman to always give time for the man who became her lover. For a woman, her friends are giving good advice. So do not, she prefers hanging out with friends, rather than a date with her boyfriend who is always limited in interacting with his friends.

'Why do women like to linger in the salon? "

Never catapult this question in women. Moreover, complaining about the budget that is always asking beauty treatments are supported by you. If most men like to spend time or work especial soccer and motor car, a woman wants to spend his time caring for and beautify the entire body. So accept.

'The girl was very sexy'

Is it Priyanka Chopra or Angelina Jolie or just a girl with sexy clothes on the roadside. Every woman would never be like hearing it, especially if he has started to compare his lover with another woman's beauty.

'I need some time alone'

This statement can make many women misunderstand. Can make his mind felt he no longer needed by you. Slowly she was able to keep a distance and away from you.

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Disconnect the secret behind Pain Love

Farewell to a spouse or lover gives a painful sense of loss. Sensation of pain often feels like real impaled in the chest or pain in the abdomen, though no physical injury.

Through a study, scientists know the reasons behind the painful sensation. The study, published in Proceedings of the National Academy of Science found that the brain shows the same thing when a person feels physical pain and emotional distress.

"This means that the phrase 'hurt' is not just a metaphor," said lead study author, Ethan Kross, assistant professor in the department of psychology at the University of Michigan.

In preliminary studies, brain scans showed that the brain does not see the difference between negative emotions are caused by physical and emotional pain.

Kross and then test whether the cause of physical pain in people who experience rejection. The researchers gathered 40 people decided lover in six months, so the sting of separation are still felt.

All are asked to touch a hot object without causing any injuries when their brains scanned. Next they are shown photographs of former lovers as he recalled the farewell.

Apparently, the two brain regions that respond to pain in one place. That, according to Kross, is part of the evolutionary process of human survival that help to keep it in groups. "Alone it is dangerous. You will easily become the target beast in those days," he said as quoted from Shine.

"So the physical pain would be a strong cue to pay attention to what you are doing so that can always be in the group.

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Relationship is More Serious

Every relationship must be confronted with a choice, towards a more serious relationship or just have fun. Some couples just need a short time to achieve the commitments, while others need time for years.

For couples who feel comfortable with each other, said the commitment will soon appear. But often, lovers did not also show its seriousness. You do not have to waste precious time with someone who is not ready.

If you want a more stable relationship than a relationship 'but intimate friend' or a date, time to assess the lover. Could be, he's still want to have fun and tend to be childish.

Here are some signs of male juvenile, as quoted from Yourtango:

1. No vision
In adulthood, it tends not know what he wants. For example, he enrolled but kept changing because it was unsuitable, so spend a long time.

This means, he is not confident in his desire. A man who is not sure of himself and what his purpose is not ready to commit long term.

2. He partied like ABG
Partying does not matter, as long as he also knows to control themselves while saving money. But in fact, his behavior reminds you of a teenager spending money just for the novelty.

Men who want to feel young still are people who tend to avoid becoming an adult. Behavior will cause problems when you are together.

3. He chose the unemployed
Finding a job is hard, but he never tried hard to get a job. He enjoys doing and rely on the help of parents to meet their needs.

If the lover has a healthy body, but chose unemployed, it shows laziness. If you remain married, be prepared to enter a full household quarrels.

4. Still dependent on parents
There is time, a grown man to live independently. However, he is tied with parents and is not ready to live alone. If he can not be independent for himself, of course it is difficult to do much for his partner later.

5. Too obsessed with idol
Admire and have the idol of a natural thing as long as not excessive. If the lover is too obsessed with an artist, to affect his life suggests he is a dreamer and has its own world.

He may be a romantic, but it will be difficult to adapt to the reality in the long run.

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